Grand Master
summarizes his 94 years of age, reveals with exclusivity his
philosophical writings and claims to have no fear of death.

“The brave
man is a quiet and sure being, for nothings disturbs him, one who is
able to solve any task, any problem,” says the highest rated Jiu-Jitsu
fighter alive. Seven members of GRACIE Magazine (a photographer, two
editors, two reporters, one trainee and one curious guy from the
administrative sector) listen to the lesson with plenty of attention,
unlike the fly – one of those very small ones – that clumsily flies
above Helio’s head. At times it lands on the face of the red-belt
(already at the tenth degree), who tries to push it away with the
hands. The insect is able to dodge and goes back to annoy him. A brave
one for sure.
Helio has
got a card index with a black cover on his lap. That’s where he keeps
his philosophical writings, a treasure never before revealed to a
report team. Running across the index, the current patriarch of the
Gracie family finds a page concerning one of the texts he likes the
most. It’s called “The Man and the Dog,” from which the following
aphorism is worth mentioning: “If the man walked on all fours, he
would be an animal that deserved to be castrated and put away.”
And
this is just one of Helio Gracie’s theories. His favorite pastime
nowadays is thinking, reflecting on life. Consequently he writes. “I’m
92 years old [he adds the nine months of gestation to his age]. It is
hard to find a head that works as fast as mine. I’ve never had this
much good sense in my whole life,” he reveals. If the wrinkles show
that Helio is suffering from this inexorable opponent called time, the
irreverence and brilliancy of his words make it clear that the
Jiu-Jitsu monarch walks hand in hand with the years.
Perhaps
the simplicity is a strong ally of Helio’s in reaching this late
well-being, as he approaches a century of living. The out-of-line
Casio wristwatch tells time on the guru’s left wrist. The pair of
sneakers he wears is worn out, with no famous brand left to be seen.
The white t-shirt, bearing the family name chest-high, is tucked into
the loose gray pants that go way above the waist.

But it
is not only for being alien to the latest Sao Paulo Fashion Week that
Helio Gracie can be defined as simple man. That becomes much clearer
when one listens to the humility of his self-criticism (“I’ve always
been a skinny guy, a nobody”) or the objectivity of his decisions
(“With me there’s no halfway, it’s either yes or no”), besides the
elementary lever techniques he used in order to perfect Jiu-Jitsu:
“Any crippled is able to learn from the moves I created.”
For
years interview-unfriendly, the legendary Jiu-Jitsu professor speaks
spontaneously to the Gracie-Mag team. “I like the magazine,” he
explains. Helio could earn a lot of money giving motivational seminars
at great enterprises – you’ll notice this interview resembles a class.
The reporters, professionals paid to ask questions, spend most of the
time quiet, listening.
But when
they do ask…
“Are
you afraid of death?” “Do you regret having or not having done
something in such a long life?” “Don’t you feel lonely in this far
away ranch?” In the following interview, you’ll learn how Helio Gracie
faced every one of these questions, treating them as if they were the
weakest of white-belts. He still found the strength to lead our team
to the house back of the ranch, where there’s a dark-green mat, and
showed us some of the positions of the martial art he reinvented:
Jiu-Jitsu.
You are nearly a century old. Do you regret having or not
having done something in so long?
Funny,
I don’t remember anything I disapprove. I was always a normal kid,
except for one flaw: I liked to fight. At least until I got two
important life lessons. I remember the first as if it were today. I
used to walk up and down, still very young, before I got acquainted
with Jiu-Jitsu. I weighed about 70lb, but I’d tell anyone: “What the
hell are you looking at?” Well, one day a friend called Gugu told me:
“Hey, there’s a certain Benigno around who wants to beat me up.” In
order to defend Gugu, I decided to fight the guy without even knowing
who he was. I asked him: “Do you want to hit Gugu?” and punched his
face right away. Then he punched me about 20 times. My face was all
swollen. People would enquire what had happened to my face. I told
them I had fought Benigno and they replied: “Benigno, alright; that
guy is malign, look at the beating he gave you!” [laughter]. In the
end I realized it was a deserved beating. Lesson one: don’t be unfair,
don’t fight for no reason.
What about the second lesson?
Well,
years later I was on a bus, going to Copacabana beach, and there was a
stern, strong young man, looking in my direction. I approached him and
said: “Why are you staring at me? Do you think I’m a queer?” But he
didn’t give a damn, didn’t even pay attention. He lowered his sight
and spoke: “Go away, kid.” It was such great contempt that I never
again disturbed anyone else. Soon afterwards I met Jiu-Jitsu and never
fought in the street again. The fellow fights in the street because he
doesn’t believe in himself, he wants to challenge people to prove
something. But after he learns Jiu-Jitsu, he strengthens himself in
such a way that he starts to treat street fighting with the same
contempt that guy on the bus had for me.
So you hold no grudge
whatsoever?
Let’s say all of you [he
points at the seven members of the GRACIE team] kicked my ass right
now, broke the hell out of me, so that I’d have to spend the next six
years in bed recovering. Suddenly a cop calls me saying he arrested
the gang that beat me up. “I can kill or cripple every single one of
them, no one will ever know about it, it depends solely on you,” he
would tell me. I’d simply reply: “Do nothing, leave them all alone.” I
believe nature charges a fair price that perhaps I would not be able
to reckon. I don’t avenge myself on anyone. Nature will get them for
me, and that makes me sleep peacefully, with no fear of anything. I
usually say that nobody gets what they don’t deserve, be it punishment
or reward. A brick fell onto your head? Thank God for it, because you
owed something that was paid by this. It ain’t easy to think like
this, it’s hard, but one day you’ll get there and understand it.

Speaking of punishments from nature, how do you look at natural
disasters such as tsunamis?
Nature
cleans; by the way, it is cleaning at this moment. And the worst is
yet to come. There are a few things I write, if you wish to hear I’ll
read it aloud to you. I started studying nature and consequently
studied mankind. You think you know yourselves, but none of you knows
what you truly are. [Master Helio leaves the porch to fetch to card
indexes in the back of the house. On one there’s a tag reading “Moral
traits” and on the other “General Issues.”] Everything that comes out
of your mind is a moral trait. I have listed 58 of them. Don’t notice,
I’m ignorant, although not stupid. I always had the intention of
giving good lessons, serving as example, correcting other people’s
mistakes. But then I realized I had more defects than the people I
advised. I began scrutinizing myself, digging deep inside my soul,
correcting myself before correcting others. Thus I discovered all that
I ended up writing in theses notes. I found out I’m the worst fellow I
have ever met. I’m a thief, a criminal… Not that I have committed any
of these crimes, but I have thought of so doing, and to me that’s
enough. If I think, I am.
Do you want to publish your writings?
I have never thought of it. I don’t intend to convince anyone, this
material is nothing but my way of thinking. I don’t want to influence
anybody; the fellow either agrees with me or s/he doesn’t. I don’t
believe in religion or anything of the sort. I believe nature controls
everything in the universe [Pause for reflection]. Am I boring you?
Of course not, Master.
Well
then. I am convinced that we are also all controlled. We receive from
nature according to our thoughts, words and works. There are people
who do nothing wrong, say nothing wrong, but thinks wrongly like
there’s no tomorrow. To this day there hasn’t been a single human
being who didn’t think wrongly. I am even trying to correct that in
myself, not to think bed things anymore. When a bad thought comes to
me, I punch its face and send it away.
What was the most negative thought you ever had?
When I
was younger I was the worst person in the world. If someone did
anything wrong to me, I immediately wanted to kill them. I would never
have reached the fighting level I got to if I was a good guy… When I
started there were only criminals to fight against, I confronted a
human jungle. And to kick an animal’s ass I you must be worse than it,
which is my case. Man is the worst animal on the face of Earth.
Are you afraid of death?
Death?
[Laughter.] Why fear death? I don’t need anything, I don’t have
anything, I don’t want anything. I think it’s silly for somebody to be
scared of dying. One should be afraid of being born. I have already
told my children when I die I want a party, with no alcohol, no hell
raising [general laughter]. But I want a party with music, food… I
don’t know if you guys believe in reincarnation, but we all go and
come back until the day we no longer have to return. My brother
[Carlos Gracie, already deceased] used to say the fellow only stops
returning to Earth when he mingles with the Whole. Even when you’re
thinking just a little bit wrongly, you come back to continue
evolving. Hell, my friends, is right here on Earth.
Why have you isolated yourself from the city and come to live
here on this far away ranch in Itaipava, Rio de Janeiro?
I’ve
lived here for fourteen years now. You are aware of the crap it is to
live in a big city, aren’t you? There is not enough gold in the world
to make me leave this place. In Rio [capital of the state] you leave
your house and don’t know whether you’re coming back alive.
Don’t you feel lonely here?
Lonely?
Do you know what loneliness is? Loneliness is a person not liking
his/herself. Loneliness is not having a mental activity. It is hard to
find a head that works as quickly as mine. I am 92 years old and none
of you can think or discuss more quickly than I. There’s no reason to
feel alone. Solitude is a man getting older and not having any
friends. Loneliness is a man not having anything to do or think. It’s
hell, a disgraceful death. I like living here, no one annoys me, I
have no neighbors, the property is huge, I am miles away from the
street. For my age, my health condition, the lucidity I have today…
That is very rare, may God give you all the same. I have never such
good sense in my entire life. It’s hard to find a happier man than me.
[Helio lives in Itaipava with his wife, Vera Gracie.]
What are your pastimes here on the ranch?
When
there is no student coming to take Jiu-Jitsu lessons, I write, play
solitaire… I’m an utter vagabond [laughter]. I even watch television,
but find most of the shows awful.
Few people get to your age with so much lucidity. Is there a
secret formula for that?
The
sternness of age makes me see things as right or wrong. With me
there’s no halfway, it’s either yes or no. Try from now on not to
answer “maybe,” “more or less,” “who knows.” Simply say yes or no,
you’ll see how tough it is.
After all, which is the best move in Jiu-Jitsu?
That depends on the attack the guy is under, but when I fought my
favorite move, because against it there’s no tough guy, was the
“sleeper,” that is, the choke. I think to this day I have only won one
fight with an armlock, the rest of my opponents would go to sleep.
Since I was thinner than my adversaries, I was always on the bottom,
doing guard, and from there I would give the choke. Therefore, to me,
the greatest move is the choke-in-guard, for there’s no man who can
resist it, they all fall asleep. Or give up.
By Raphael Nogueira -
Photos by Gustavo Aragao From
Gracie--Magazine |